BEGGING FOR A PEGGING
I saw a porno a couple of weeks ago where a guy was getting pegged by a hot busty blonde, and I can’t stop thinking about it. I’d like to give it a try, but I don’t know how to ask my wife. I’m a straight man who has been married for 20+ years. – D. Burnett, Lower Hutt
I’m a firm believer in letting your freak flag fly, baby! But I do get that asking to try something new can be awkward. If you and your wife are fairly open about sex, you could start by telling her exactly what you’ve written in. OR you could leave this page of the magazine open in a place she’ll find it. If that feels too direct, you could say some of the guys at work were talking about something called pegging, and ask if she’d heard of it. If she hasn’t, she’s bound to Google it! Getting the conversation started is probably going to be the trickiest part, but once it’s out there the two of you can have fun doing a little research – and shopping! – together. Read some articles about how to get started with pegging, and make sure you purchase a strap-on from a reputable retailer. This is definitely not the kind of situation where you want to attempt a DIY option! There are some great, and very discreet, online stores out there, so do a little browsing together and invest in some toys you’ll both enjoy. When it comes to your first pegging experience, remember lots of lube, and ease into things with some gentle anal play to help you relax. Have fun!